If you don’t balance your head, your crown will tilt over.

– The Feminine Throne

As women, how we balance our lives directly correlates to our happiness, influencing the way we nurture ourselves as well as the people in our care. Today let’s focus on how we care for and nurture ourselves because we cannot accomplish anything if we are mentally and physically unhealthy. Allow me to note that there are many aspects to balancing out your life, but this article will speak to balancing your desires with your responsibility.

A balanced life should be the goal for every woman because it appreciates our selflessness while acknowledging our wants and desires. Balancing both allows us to recognize our desires and their importance to our happiness and growth while still caring for the people we love. Honoring our desires should not be seen as a source of shame, but instead, a way to care for our own unique needs and wants. I know it can be difficult trying to live a life that allows us to surrender to our desires without disappointing the people in our lives who frown whenever their not included in our happiness or to make selfish decisions without being burdened by the consequences brought on by others disapproval or to live an existence that favors our own happiness and contentment despite actions that directly go against the expectations of the world. Regardless of this, we must learn to balance our needs and desires against others needs and desires, and we can definitely do that as long as we understand that it doesn’t matter what we want the outcome of our action to be, social law (what the world say we should be doing), and others needs and desires will ultimately dictate how your actions are judged. So you must ask yourself three questions: is the action worth it? Can I live with this action? Can I live without doing this action? Once you figure out the answer to the question it will become easier to balance your fears and create a plan that works best with the action allowing you to indulge in your desires but moderately in a way that honors you and your loved ones. This is the idea of living with balance. Making sure you are happy as well as the people you love and knowing that sometimes you will have to sacrifice for their happiness and they will have to do the same for you.

Some of the best traits of Feminine energy are patience and self-control. Mastering both will allow you to naturally balance your desires and responsibility so that you do not become overwhelmed and begin to think that you must choose one or the other. We can have it all with a plan, a clear understanding of who we are, and what we need out of life. While still acknowledging how important our selflessness is to the ones we love. Just make sure you plan some time for the things you need out of life. Your contentment with your own life is as important as the people you love being content with theirs. Understanding how to balance your desires and responsibility will help you start to live a life were you feel seen, appreciated, and fulfilled.

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